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Acceptance is the last stage of grief says model and blogger Priya Gautam

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Acceptance is the last stage of grief says model and blogger Priya Gautam

Sometimes you’re an observer of other people’s lives and you think you’ll never experience what they’re living, whether it’s a positive or negative situation. You think, “That will never happen to me.” Acceptance is the last stage of grief says model and blogger Priya Gautam

Part of the real beauty of life is that it’s unpredictable. Nothing is permanent, everything changes, and of course, a lot of things can happen that will transform who you are and have an impact on your life. The problem is that we need to cultivate the ability to truly accept whatever comes and embrace it. We need to develop the habit of looking at whatever happens through a positive mindset instead of a negative, defeatist one.

Of course, life will bring many challenges, such as the death of someone we love, and it’s not easy to embrace them when we’re suffering and wishing those things would have never happened. But if we start cultivating acceptance in our lives right now, we’ll likely cope with future crises in a different way and view them from a different perspective. We will accept instead of resisting.

I discovered that I was happier and more peaceful when I accepted what had happened instead of constantly fighting to change things.  

There are two ways out of a problem: accept what’s happening, see the positive, and choose a peaceful state of mind; or fight against it, be miserable, and struggle against the universe.

Practicing acceptance prepares you to live in this changing world, where you never know what’s going to happen next. Acceptance is like protecting yourself with your own shield. Let me clarify that acceptance is not at all related to weakness, and is definitely not a synonym of conformity or mediocrity. We need to learn how to identify when it’s time to persist and when it’s time to accept.

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One thing that makes acceptance much easier is to list all the possible explanations for why you’re experiencing something. Choose not to judge what happens to you. Instead, believe that everything happens for a reason and that better things will always follow. That’s the beginning of true acceptance. Somewhere recently I read that the important thing is not to understand why something happened. Our understanding can wait, but our obedience cannot.

I translate this to mean that when something unpredictable happens, instead of complaining and over-thinking it, we need to choose to live with it. I know it’s hard to practice acceptance when you deeply wish things were different. But the truth is, sometimes we can’t change our reality, even if we try.

So instead of staring at the closed door in front of us, or getting tired and bruised while we try to break it down, let’s turn around and see how many other windows we have open.

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Kartik Aryan will be seen in Sajid Nadiadwala and Sameer Vidwans’ romantic-comedy film, the actor has charged Rs 15 crore as fees

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Actor Kartik Aryan is shooting for his upcoming film ‘Freddy‘ these days. Apart from ‘Freddy’, Kartik Aaryan will also be seen in ‘Dhamaka’, Shahzada, Captain India, and the upcoming untitled film of Sajid Nadiadwala-Sameer Vanshmal. Now recently big information has come out about Kartik that he has charged a 15 crores fee for the romantic-comedy film of Sajid Nadiadwala and Sameer Vidwans.

Kartik had earlier demanded a fee of Rs 18 crore.

According to sources, Kartik Aaryan has been cast for the upcoming untitled film of director Sameer Vidwans. Apart from Kartik, Kiara Advani is also going to be seen in the lead role in the film. Kartik Aryan has charged Rs 15 crore for this film. The source added, “It is a simple love story, which needs to be made on a fixed budget. Sajid and his team were clear to bring in the best technicians in the film with ample emphasis on the music. Kartik first approached the makers. In front, a fee of Rs 18 crore was demanded the film. However, at the request of the makers, Kartik has agreed to do the film at a fee of Rs 15 crore.” Kartik can start shooting for this film by the end of this year.

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Kartik has charged fees less than his current market value

The source further added, “Sajid Nadiadwala is one of the most successful producers in Bollywood and Kartik wants to be associated with Nadiadwala Grandson Entertainment for a long time. If, in the untitled rom-com, everything between Kartik and the producer If all goes well, many more collaborations are expected between the two. The fee Kartik has charged for this film is less than his current market value. But, Karthik understands the budget of the film very well. That’s why they agreed to reduce their fees for the benefit of the film.” Let us inform you that, Kartik has charged Rs 21 crore for Ronnie Screwvala and Ram Madhvani’s ‘Dhamaka’, which is going to be released soon on the OTT platform Netflix.

ALSO READBigg Boss 15: Neha Marda is not a part of the show, said – this year I am not doing the show

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Bigg Boss 15: Neha Marda is not a part of the show, said – this year I am not doing the show

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The news of TV actress Neha Marda joining Bigg Boss 15 was coming to the fore. But Neha herself has made it clear during an interview that she will not be a part of the show. Along with this, Neha also said that one day she would definitely like to go to Salman Khan’s show. Neha is currently seen in the show ‘Kyun Rishton Mein Katti Batti’.

Neha would definitely like to be a part of the show

Neha says, “This year I am not doing Bigg Boss. But one day I would definitely like to be a part of this show. This year I was going to do another reality show, but because of Corona, that too could not happen.”

Neha says people get a chance to show their personalities through the show

Neha further says, “Initially I myself said in the interview that I will never do Bigg Boss. I never thought that this show is for a person like me. But things change and that’s why you should never say no. In the last few years, Bigg Boss has emerged as a different kind of platform where people get a chance to show their personalities. So now I don’t think Bigg Boss is a non-potential show. I would love to enter the house someday, But it should happen when it’s the right time for it.”

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Neha considers herself as her character in the show

Neha said, “I am exactly like my character in the show. It is just that in the show I play the role of a mother and I have two children whereas in real life I do not have children. But I am sure that one day When I become a mother, I will also be like Shubhra.”

ALSO READMoney laundering case: Jacqueline Fernandez did not appear in ED’s inquiry, there is a case of fraud of Rs 200 crore

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Money laundering case: Jacqueline Fernandez did not appear in ED’s inquiry, there is a case of fraud of Rs 200 crore

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Actress Jacqueline Fernandez on Saturday skipped questioning after being summoned by the Enforcement Directorate (ED) in a money laundering case involving conman Sukesh Chandrasekhar. It is not clear whether he had requested to postpone his inquiry. The ED is probing in the case whether there was any financial transaction between Sukesh and Jacqueline. This was the second time the actress was called for questioning by the central probe agency in the Rs 200 crore fraud case. Last month, he was questioned for five hours in this case.

Jacqueline is a witness in the Sukesh case

Sukesh Chandrashekhar Jacqueline is being questioned in connection with an alleged multi-crore extortion racket, who is also accused of a bribery case involving the Election Commission. “He is not an accused but is being questioned as a witness in the case against thug Sukesh Chandrashekhar,” ED sources told the media. It is believed that the actress came on his radar through Sukesh’s wife Leena Paul.

Rs 200 crore extortion case

The case is based on an FIR registered against Sukesh and others in the Economic Offenses Wing of Delhi Police for alleged criminal conspiracy, cheating, and extortion of around Rs 200 crore.
The ED, in its statement after the raid, had said, “Sukesh Chandrashekhar is the mastermind of this fraud. He has been a part of the crime world since the age of 17. There are many cases registered against him and presently he is lodged in Rohini Jail. “
The ED had seized Sukesh’s sea-facing bungalow in Chennai on August 24. 82.5 lakh in cash and more than a dozen luxury cars were seized from his bungalow.

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Jacqueline’s upcoming projects

Jacqueline was seen in ‘Bhoot Police’ alongside Saif Ali Khan, Yami Gautam, and Arjun Kapoor. She currently has several projects in hand which include ‘Ram Setu’ and ‘Bachchan Pandey’ with Akshay Kumar, ‘Kick 2’ with Salman Khan, and ‘Circus’ with Ranveer Singh and Pooja Hegde.

ALSO READSpecial conversation: On return, Genelia D’Souza said – If everything goes well, I will start shooting for a film by the end of next year

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